Toshiba Phone System

Imagine there is a problem in telephone system and every call your spouse is making or receiving?

is heard like a parallel connection on your mobile phone also ! What would you do ? Tell your spouse immediately about this parallel connection ? or listen to the fun for few days and then decide ? or never tell him ? Do you expect any funny or surprising outcome of this ?

Public Comments

1. I would tell him immediately. We are always open and honest with each other because anything less is asking for trouble and suspicion. We know all passwords etc... Guess my response is not really funny... but I am sure there would be a few funny phone calls in there somewhere lol.
2. Make sure your ready to hear whatever may come through that connection
3. Oh I would so listen in until I got caught LOL. Most of the calls on his phone would probably bore me cuz they are mostly business calls but you never know. I don't expect anything shocking to come in.
4. I would respect his privacy and notify him.
5. I'd tell her on day one / minute one. My wife is not just my wife she's also a person who deserves to have some privacy. And personally I don't believe in looking or listening for problems, I love my life just as it is.
6. out of respect for my spouse I would not listen and I would probably mention something to him.... if you dont have trust in a relationship, you dont have a relationship... so you may as well just end it already
7. Listen, but be prepared.......
8. I don't think it'd be wise to listen in. What you hear may be hurtful to you. And if you got caught somehow, that would be an issue to have to work through. Consider this: Would YOU want HIM listening in on your calls? Everyone is entitled to a certain amount of privacy, and this is one of those areas where you should leave well enough alone! To me, it is the same as going into someone else's purse or wallet.
9. That parallel phone line is probably working both ways. You could say wonderful things about him and mention what you would like for your next birthday.
10. If you truely love a person whether you hear or not, love keep maturing. What if it makes you understand better him/her to serve him/her better. Other way if he/she is cheating, you can understand the situation and act accordingly at your own pace and may take actions to help prevent further damage to relationship or quit peacefully. Abrupt/sudden/paralytic/hysteric actions are unwarrented (they can happen for other reason too if u r liable) it only leads to untoward reactions. Because person behave differently about a person in their absence. A psychological knowledge and maturity with common sense is the need of the hour. There can be no privacy or induviduality between a man and woman who loves but Unison. Ofcourse Trust required. Your respect levels alters once you know the person's weakenss and reality. People around Tirupati temple worshipping level differs from the visitors. So you need to know black and white before you simply accepting it.